I used to sometimes socialise with my friend John at the coffee shop.
We spoke a lot about ... philosophical things.
And ... truth be told ... I've enjoyed those conversations.
There were moments when John came with his girlfriend .... Briana ... and without realising i've started to analyse all about them.
I was speaking with John .... but couldn't stop myself to look at her also.
... but for the analysis.
We met maybe 1-2 times a weeks .... and maybe after 6 months .... I already knew them very, very well.
They never really told me any details about their life as a couple .... but i could feel the energy of their connection for 100%.
But ... the passing of time ... made me see something very
weird ... which i never thought about.
Briana .... had 2 friends ... Sarah and Emily ... and they sometimes came to our coffee shop too ... but for a reason which i could not really understand ... John totally changed his face when those girls appeared there.
It was all ... almost a nonsense.
Of course ... as usual ... i simple continued to analyse all ... in silence.
Unfortunately ... i've started to see him more and more annoyed when those 2 ladies were coming to our table.
Briana started to laugh with them ... and all was looking like normal ... but John's face was looking more and more weird.
One time ... all 3 ladies decided to go walking for 30 minutes ... and remaining alone with him ... i've dared to ask .... "John! What the hell is going on?! Why you hate those 2 women?! It's a little bit ... illogical .... but very obviously .... "
Relaxed ... John replied ... "I do not hate them! No ....
They are both nice ladies.
In fact ... i like them.
... i mean ... as humans.
But being in no real relationship today ... opened to any men ... speaking with lots of men from the internet... and into the same time connecting so deeply with my Briana ... i realise that was the profile of my girlfriend too ... and i hate that side of her past.
I don't feel her anymore ... like ... my Briana ... but a woman opened to any men from the stage of her life.
Same as those ... 2 ladies ...
And ... i hate seeing that... cause ... i lose the connection with her.
Sarah and Emily really has the power to reactivate that old version of my girlfriend.
I see ... all changed.
I see a woman loving the connections with other men ... and ignoring the power of the connection with me.
The dynamic of all changes.
After the meeting with them ... i need 2-3 days to have my Briana back.
And ... yes ... i hate that."
It looked a little bit weird.... all John was telling me ... but somehow i was becoming aware of the power of those influences.
... and how they can change the vibes of a beautiful relationship.
I've started to understand... John ... cause he was right.
He worked a lot with Briana ... trying to convince her about the amazing benefits of being in an absolute connection with a single person .... but those girls ... without realising ... were reminding her about how nice it is to be a free woman ... wanted by all the men.
So ... seeing John getting crazy ... was normal ... and i had to accept this type of behaviour in such circumstances.
Unfortunately ... into my past ... I could not easily identify those factors which were having a huge impact on my love life .... and at least minimise all.
I was blind …
... too blind ....
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